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Big Emotions Deck

The printed deck + instant digital access + 4 bonus tools — stop the yelling and calm any meltdown in 3 minutes.

  • Printed + Digital included
  • 4 free bonus tools
  • Harvard, CASEL & CDC backed

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I downloaded it and used it within the same hour. Then the printed set arrived and now there's one in every room. My daughter even calmed herself down at school using her own card.
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90-Day Money Back Guarantee

We are so confident in what's inside that we back it with a full 90-day guarantee. Try it. Use it with your family. If you don't feel like it made a real difference, contact us and we'll refund every cent.

Therapist-Designed
Therapist-Designed
Evidence-Based
Evidence-Based
Trusted by 27K+ Families
Trusted by 27K+ Families
Whole-Child Approach
Whole-Child Approach
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Therapist-Designed
Therapist-Designed
Evidence-Based
Evidence-Based
Trusted by 27K+ Families
Trusted by 27K+ Families
Whole-Child Approach
Whole-Child Approach
FREE SHIPPING
FREE SHIPPING
Therapist-Designed
Therapist-Designed
Evidence-Based
Evidence-Based
Trusted by 27K+ Families
Trusted by 27K+ Families
Whole-Child Approach
Whole-Child Approach
FREE SHIPPING
FREE SHIPPING
Therapist-Designed
Therapist-Designed
Evidence-Based
Evidence-Based
Trusted by 27K+ Families
Trusted by 27K+ Families
Whole-Child Approach
Whole-Child Approach
FREE SHIPPING
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Inspired by research and frameworks from:

70% of dogs over

1 in 3 children struggle with emotional regulation — and most parents freeze in the moment because nobody taught them what to actually say.

Most parents freeze mid-meltdown — not because they don't care, but because nobody ever gave them the right words for that exact moment.

What's Inside the Big Emotions Deck

What's Inside the Big Emotions Deck

Premium printed deck — shipped to your door

Premium printed deck — shipped to your door

Instant digital access included — start tonight

Instant digital access included — start tonight

54 therapist-designed cards for ages 3 to 10

54 therapist-designed cards for ages 3 to 10

Bedtime Calm Deck + Self-Regulation Deck — 2 best-selling decks included free

Bedtime Calm Deck + Self-Regulation Deck — 2 best-selling decks included free

Works in under 3 minutes — no prep

Works in under 3 minutes — no prep

Backed by Harvard, CASEL & CDC research

Backed by Harvard, CASEL & CDC research

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How It Works

Simple enough to use in the middle of a meltdown. No prep, no training, no guessing.

Spot the Moment

Spot the Moment

You'll recognize it immediately. The tension, the shutdown, the meltdown starting to build. That's exactly when this works.

Reach for One Tool

Reach for One Tool

Skip straight to what feels most urgent. Mornings? Meltdowns? Bedtime? You don't need to read it all at once.

Try One Small Shift

Try One Small Shift

Pick one tool, one script, or one strategy. Apply it today. Small, steady changes create lasting calm.

Watch the Dynamic Change

Watch the Dynamic Change

As your response changes, your child's behavior follows. Most parents notice a real shift within the first few days.

Real Parents, Real Results

Join 24,839 families who finally found what works.

The RaiseCalm Difference

The shift happens faster than you'd expect — and it sticks.

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The Difference You Can Trust

The Difference

🧠 Therapist-Designed

Every tool, script, and framework is built by licensed child psychologists and SEL educators — not generic wellness content. What you get is clinically grounded and parent-tested.

🌱 Whole-Child Approach

We look at behavior, emotions, sensory needs, routines, and the parent's regulation together. Because a child is never just one problem to solve.

📋 Age-Specific Tools

Language and strategies are designed for real developmental stages — not vague advice that could apply to anyone. What works for a 3-year-old is different from what works for a 9-year-old.

❤️ Built for Real Parenting

Not for perfect days. Not for parents who have time to prep. Every tool works in the middle of a hard moment — when you're already overwhelmed and need something that actually helps right now.

Us Vs.Them

Worksheets require printing, cutting, and storage setup. The Big Emotions Deck arrives professionally produced, pre-cut, and ready to use — with a digital copy included — so there's no barrier between the hard moment and the right words.

Us Vs.Them

Worksheets require printing, cutting, and storage setup. The Big Emotions Deck arrives professionally produced, pre-cut, and ready to use — with a digital copy included — so there's no barrier between the hard moment and the right words.

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Home-Printed Worksheets
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Premium printed deck shipped to your door
Printed + digital copy — both included
Therapist-designed for ages 3 to 10
Works in under 3 minutes — no prep needed
Co-regulation + parent reset tools built in
Bedtime Calm Deck + Self-Regulation Deck included free
Instant digital access — start tonight
Evidence-based methodology (Harvard, CASEL, CDC)

Real Science Vs. Myth

What you've heard about kids and big emotions isn't the whole story.

✕ Myth: My child just needs to calm down on their own

✓ The Science:

Most kids can't self-regulate because that part of the brain isn't fully developed until age 25. They need a co-regulating adult — not silence — to come back to calm. That's exactly what the deck teaches you to provide.

✕ Myth: Scripted prompts feel fake and unnatural

✓ The Science:

These cards were designed around how real kids actually respond — not how we wish they would. Parents consistently say it feels more natural than what they used to say, because the words are backed by child psychology, not guesswork.

✕ Myth: I have my phone — I don't really need the printed cards

✓ The Science:

When a meltdown hits, the last thing that helps is unlocking a phone and searching. The printed deck lives right there in the room — your child can even grab it themselves. The digital copy is included as your backup for when you're out, but parents who keep the printed cards within reach use them far more often.

What Families Are Saying...

Excellent 4.9 based on 24,839 Verified Reviews

Frequently Asked Questions

Everything you need to know before you get started.

What's included in the Big Emotions Deck bundle?+

You get the professionally printed Big Emotions Deck shipped to your door, plus instant digital access — all 54 therapist-designed cards — and 4 free bonus tools: the Calm Together Parent Circle, the 3-Day Stop Yelling Reset, and 2 of our best-selling decks, the Bedtime Calm Deck and the Self-Regulation Deck for Parents. It's the complete toolkit at the best value.

When do I get the digital version, and when does the printed deck arrive?+

Your digital deck is available instantly — you get access to the high-resolution PDF the moment your order is confirmed, so you can use it tonight. Your printed deck ships separately with tracking and arrives within 7 to 10 days in most cases.

Do I need any training or parenting experience to use this?+

No training or experience needed. Every card is written so you can read it directly — no memorizing, no prep. You open the deck, find the card that matches the moment, and follow the prompt. Most parents use it successfully the very first time.

What ages is the Big Emotions Deck designed for?+

The deck is designed for children aged 3 to 10. The language and techniques scale across that range — simpler sensory prompts for younger kids, more reflective scripts for older ones. Many parents of 2-year-olds also find it effective with minor adaptation.

My child has very intense meltdowns. Will this still work?+

Yes — and it was built with those moments in mind. The prompts use sensory co-regulation first, which helps bring the nervous system down before any language can actually land. Most parents with highly sensitive or neurodivergent children report seeing a shift faster than they expected.

What are the printed cards made of?+

Premium card stock with a matte finish, designed to withstand daily handling by children. The cards resist bending and fading through regular use.

What ages is the Big Emotions Deck designed for?+

The deck is designed for children aged 3 to 10. The language and techniques scale across that range — simpler sensory prompts for younger kids, more reflective scripts for older ones. Many parents of 2-year-olds also find it effective with minor adaptation.

My child has very intense meltdowns. Will this still work?+

Yes — and it was built with those moments in mind. The prompts use sensory co-regulation first, which helps bring the nervous system down before any language can actually land. Most parents with highly sensitive or neurodivergent children report seeing a shift faster than they expected.

What are the printed cards made of?+

Premium card stock with a matte finish, designed to withstand daily handling by children. The cards resist bending and fading through regular use.

90-Day Money-Back Guarantee

We are so confident in what's inside that we back it with a full 90-day guarantee. Try it. Use it with your family. If you don't feel like it made a real difference, contact us and we'll refund every cent.

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We are so confident in what's inside that we back it with a full 90-day guarantee. Try it. Use it with your family. If you don't feel like it made a real difference, contact us and we'll refund every cent.

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Big Emotions Deck
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